Jim Jarmusch's Father Mother Sister Brother (2026) is a slight film, a wisp of a thing that is both abstract and feather-light. There's not much to the movie and the acting, as well as mise en scene are very restrained. The movie has a nonchalant profundity and I recommend it. The picture is an omnibus of three narratives (or anti-narratives) in which very little overt happens. But the stories are tied together in an ingenious way and cumulatively they make an important point: children are mysteries to their parents and, similarly, parents are enigmas to their children. We can never really know our father or mother and, in fact, of all human relationships the bond between parents and their children is the most awkward because deeply fraught with emotions that once existed but are now dormant because unnecessary. Parents love their children when they are small and know everything about them. But when the children are emancipated, both sides of the relationship grow remote and the silence of incomprehension descends between them. This silence is heavy and painful because it substitutes for a close and intimate relationship that was once necessary. Grown children and their parents have little or nothing in common.
In "Father", the first episode, two apparently successful middle-aged siblings are traveling to a remote house in the forest where their father lives alone. Since the father never really worked, the siblings muse about his entitlement to social security. They wonder how he survives. The sister (played by Mayim Bialik) is caustic and skeptical; the brother (Adam Driver) feels guilty about the old man's poverty and the fact that he has not visited for two years. The father putters about his house, a nice lakeshore property in a deep snowy woods concealing his new furniture under ragged sheets and hiding his expensive appliances. When the kids arrive, they are distressed by the old man's ruined-looking Chevy pickup and conclude that he is destitute. The old man (Tom Waitts) has nothing to say to them. They awkwardly sit in the house, gazing out at the view over the snowy lake and hills. The son wants to see the new septic system and plumbing that he has financed but the father isn't willing to give him a tour. They toast to their deceased mother and to "family relations". The son presents a big box of treats and groceries to his father: expensive bourbon, Trader Joe style Italian pasta and pickles, cookies and crackers and the like When brother and sister depart, the son gives his father a wad of cash to "tide you over." But there is an incongruity that the sister notices: the old man is wearing a Rolex. When she comments on it, the father says it is a "fugazi" that is, a fake. After the couple leave, the father calls a girlfriend, tells her he has some extra cash, and asks her to make a reservation at an expensive restaurant. Then, he departs, pulling a shroud off his brand-new car that was hidden around the back of the cottage.
In "Mother", we see a handsome older woman lying on her couch in a very nice home talking to her therapist on the phone. It's an emergency "phone session" probably intended to shore her up in light of the visit of her two daughters. One daughter, with flamboyantly colored hair, is riding with her friend, another young woman -- there is an intimation that the women are lesbian lovers. She wants to arrive in an Uber and, so, the friend lets her off a block from the house so she can claim that she hired a car to take her to the luncheon -- in fact, it's a sort of "high tea". The other sister is coming by car but her vehicle fails. She figures out that a wire is disconnected in the engine, reconnects it, and, then, drives to the tea with her mother. The family members embrace but have nothing to say to one another. The sister whose car failed says that she has been appointed to a prestigious Board (the Heritage Board) in Dublin. (The story is set in Dublin.) We learn that the mother is a romance novelist and, apparently, very successful. The other daughter with the brightly colored hair tells her mother that she is extremely successful and has made a lot of money. She shows the mother her designer purse but, then, admits that it's a fake. The sister with the colored hair calls for an Uber but has to use her mother's app (since she apparently doesn't have any money to pay for the ride). The three stand silently in the doorway waiting for the Uber to arrive. During the tea service, the three make a toast with tea to their being reunited on this occasion.
"Sister Brother" involves two handsome siblings who meet in Paris where their parents lived to clean out the family apartment. (The parents have been killed in an airplane crash in the Azores.) In fact, the brother, who is micro-dosing on "shrooms", has already cleaned out the rooms and had the furniture and personal effects transported to a storage unit. There is a close bond between brother and sister and they reminisce about old times. The brother takes the sister to the apartment which is eerily empty and they sit on the floor looking at old photographs from their childhood and pictures of their parents, a very handsome interracial couple. The brother is wearing a Rolex watch that he found in his father's effects and they wonder whether the watch is real or fake. Their parents apparently kept many of their school drawings and pictures and reports. A landlady appears and scolds them for remaining in the apartment. The brother and sister, then, go to the storage unit packed with old lamps and settees and many, many boxes. They agree that they never really knew anything about their parents. The brother makes the comment that some of the boxes now in storage were effects owned by their grandparents which their own parents never bothered to open. This suggests that the pattern of mutual incomprehension between parent and child is multi-generational.
Jarmusch imposes a formal order on these materials which, in fact, comprises a single story repeated in three variations. This story is universal, with examples cited in the United States (rural New Jersey), Dublin, and Paris -- the universal story is that parents and their children are mysteries to one another and that there is a wall of incomprehension between them. Jarmusch's style is "parametric" to use David Bordwell's term -- the story is subject to "parameters" in the way that it is presented. In each narrative, we will encounter three young men on skateboards, filmed in slow motion. (The skateboarding motif is an example of the incomprehensibility of behavior by young people to those older to them.) Each story will involve a toast or toasts accomplished through a non-alcoholic drink and the question: can you toast with (tea, coffee, or water)? Each story will feature diagrammatic vertical shots showing tables with cups and other things on them -- for instance, vertical shots emphasizing the elaborate tea service that is presented by the Mother. Each story will involve a road trip complete with the amplified sound of turn signals. In addition, someone will say "Bob's your uncle" or "Robert's your uncle" in each narrative. In each story, we will be presented with a luxury item that may, or may not, be a "fugazi" -- the rolex watches and the designer handbag. The continuity of these incidental motifs in all three stories presents the viewer with the sense that the kind of muted conflict that exists in this situation -- parents and children having nothing to say to one another -- assures us that the situation is not particular but universal, even, perhaps, a Platonic essence of how parents and grown children interact. Jarmusch has done this sort of thing before: consider his Night on Earth with interlocked stories involving cab rides in New York, Los Angeles, Paris, Rome, and Helsinki, and his omnibus film about Elvis and Memphis, Ghost Train,, also a series of stories that are formally separate but, nonetheless, connected by motifs and occult repetitions of events and incidental details.